It is also possible, and it often occurs, that a man with the beginning of his wife’s pregnancy, starts to feel that their future baby, even if he is unborn yet, takes his place in his woman’s heart; that his wife becomes all – sufficient, that she receives everything, she needs, and not from her husband, but from him – from a baby.

 In many aspects every man’s reaction to the news about his wife’s pregnancy depends on his relationships with his mother in childhood. Everything matters here: whether there were enough of trust, care, love, affection, freedom, self – expression in these relations. Everyone must have heard at least once in his life, that men are just big children, and a man’s reaction and behaviour may be a kid’s reaction to his mothers on the one hand, however, it is the reaction of an adult person to the coming troubles from the other. Pregnancy is considered to be a really strong connection between two loving people, as none of the future parents can be free anymore: since the moment of conception, they become connected with an invisible, but with an extremely strong thread – their future baby. Sometimes a man may experience a strong wish to return into his past, to become careless and relaxed again, to be able to free a real freedom. This wish may sometimes end up with an affair with another woman, meaning a kind of physiological rest from present and potential problems, a possibility to have sex without being afraid to harm his wife and their future baby.

 Some men may begin to feel bored, while spending time with their pregnant wives or female partners. This usually occurs, if a woman gets too much impressed with all the changes, going on with her, she may wish to share them all with her husband / male partner. She constantly telling him what is going on with her at nearly every moment: “he is moving”, “look, he bumped with his hand”, etc. moreover, these women may be annoying their husbands with complaints, like “I feel sick”, “my back aches”, “I want something salty”, “I can’t stand this smell”, etc. Future mother becomes much less attentive and she is not that pleasant interlocutor any more, she stops taking part in most merry common events, and there are some sensitive men, who may be impressed with all this in a negative way. Automatically these men begin to pay less attention at their wives’ comments and complaints; they may begin stay on work longer or get engrossed in their hobbies, etc.

 It is, of no doubt, extremely difficult for a man to understand what is going on in the organism his pregnant wife or female partner, some men do try to get into their partner’s pregnancy and they may manage to attune their soul biorhythms on a wife’s or girlfriend’s rhythms, so that to help relieve her mission, although physiologically. It is even possible that the levels of hormones in the blood of these men will get changed according to their wives, however, it only brings good to them; however, there is nothing to get worried about, because soon after delivery the hormonal level is restored moreover, these very men become the most loving, careful and attentive dads. Such men are ready from the psychological point of view for the coming childbirth all nine months long. Moreover, a positive image of his father forms in the baby’s image even long before his arrival, and a father for this baby will most likely become as close person, as mother. This kind of active participation in the pregnancy really tightens the connection between two people, their relationship become much deeper, they begin to appreciate each other, and it of course influences the whole process of pregnancy in a positive way, as woman’s emotional calmness is the reason of the baby’s full of value development, moreover, it lays the foundation for this baby’s normal personal development in the future.