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| Pregnancy and Man | If a woman is living either with her husband, or with her partner, in other words, with some man, close to her, she is not pregnant on her own, and in this case both partners are considered to be pregnant and expecting their baby’s arrival impatiently. It is obvious, that two close people, who love each other, while living together, think the same way, they even begin to look like each other, symptoms of their diseases become the same, and when one of them gets sick (infections are not the point of view here). As a rule, loving and caring partner experiences pregnancy almost as much strongly as his wife does. Men even say often: We are expecting a little one”, “We are pregnant”, etc.
Pregnancy Is Often Too Extreme For A Man
Sometimes pregnancy becomes even much more extreme for a man, than for his female partner. It is considered normal for a woman, as she is fulfilling her mission, she is aware of her duty and responsibility on this planet, nearly every woman understands, that maternity is her main goal, and these feelings are especially sharp while pregnancy.
The Law of Nature proves it: males compete one with another, they fight for females, and the females are to choose the strongest, the healthiest and the worthiest, thinking about her healthier offspring. After a woman has made her choice, reproduction becomes her goal, and once she becomes pregnant, she does not let the male approach her, as a stage of carrying her youngsters takes place. It is natural, that in wild life females use males only as their measure to achieve their goal – to become pregnant.
However, in our life people’s measures and goals are some more varied and global, but still, maternity is considered to be the strongest, even so to say “animal”, unconscious instinct of nearly all women. That is the reason why now, the pregnancy is still more natural condition for a woman, rather than for a man.
 What Does a Man Think of After He Has Heard Such Wonderful News?
As a rule news about every man’s coming fatherhood cause a real shock in a future dad, especially it is strong, when a man is a young creature, full of power, energy and ambitious. This kind of condition is well known to many men worldwide. Future father may not experience happiness, boundless joy, like it is usually written in all those “female” magazines and books.
It is a pity, however men usually think about their becoming “harnessed”, about the fact of loosing their freedom and careless youth years for ever, rather than about making an important contribution to humanity, about some person, who will be bearing his name and who may even continue his business.
It is not a secret, that a pregnant woman is all inside her own, very personal world, since the first moment she got to know about her “interesting condition”, all her thoughts, feelings and emotions become directed to only one thing – to that tiny creature, developing in her belly, to her dearest and the most beloved baby in the world. And some inner power and wisdom, which seem to come from above, guide a woman through life. Other people may also notice some changes in a woman’s behaviour, as she becomes pregnant: there appears some areola around her, something coming from inside. There appears that calm, thoughtfully – mysterious wet shine in her eyes, some softness and defenselessness, which was unnoticeable before. The very feeling of joy and happiness men do experience, however somewhat later, than their wives of female partners. And maybe it is natural, that a man becomes to feel anxious, when he sees, that his strong, supportive, even maybe sometimes strict wife turns into a creature, who needs much defense, care and protection? Since the moment, they get to know about their coming fatherhood, men begin to feel much more responsibility, even so to say, “double” responsibility, as since now they become obliged, sometimes, against their will, they are to be extremely responsible for the greater part of their family’s external problems; moreover, besides providing physiological support for their woman, they are to create a protective barrier between their wife, who is bearing his little son or daughter and the rest of the world, which is far not always friendly.
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